‘I’m not bothered about the breed, so long as it’s small, big, or under six months’ — and so on.

We see comments like this constantly, and they always make us wince.

The truth is, the breed or breed mix of the dog joining your family really does matter. Picking the right breed is vital if the match is to work and if you, your family and the dog are all to be happy.

Before you even start searching for a dog, one of the most important steps is reading up on breed traits and choosing one that suits your lifestyle and the home you can offer.

Plenty of people choose a dog purely on appearance — a pretty colour, an especially fluffy coat, an extra-tiny size or whatever is currently fashionable — without realising just how different each breed can be. That is when things begin to unravel, and owners are left puzzled as to why.

Certain breeds are naturally friendlier than others. Some require far more grooming. Some cope better with children. Some enjoy being handled more than others. Some are stronger. Some carry terrier instincts — digging, for instance. Some are brighter and need a job to stay content. Some need plenty of physical exercise. Some are more inclined to guard. Some generally get on better with other dogs. And some breeds are more prone to health issues.

Every breed comes with its own set of needs. A dog is not simply a dog. Lots of people underestimate how much time a puppy demands. A high-energy breed needs more mental and physical stimulation, yet many end up with full-time workers, busy families or people who cannot walk far — and the dog becomes bored and frustrated, chews the sofa and develops obsessive behaviours.

Then the dog gets rehomed.

Many people buy whatever breed is trending, unaware that these dogs often come with health problems — and because the breed has become popular, more irresponsible breeders produce dogs with health issues. The result is heartbroken owners who cannot afford the vet bills.

Then the dog gets rehomed.

Others may take on a terrier and think the dog is being naughty for digging up a prized rose bush, when it is simply natural behaviour — but because they do not understand the breed traits, they neither redirect the behaviour nor ask for advice.

Then the dog gets rehomed.

Sometimes very small dogs are bought and carried about constantly, including by children, until the dog becomes fearful and snaps. A dog wants to be a dog, not a toy.

Then the dog gets rehomed.

Some breeds are more likely to suffer separation anxiety, yet owners still leave them to go to work without any training in place to prevent it — or without having considered it at all. Neighbours complain, and the dog is rehomed.

Some crossbreeds need more grooming because their coats knot more easily. Owners have not thought this through and do not brush them or visit a groomer as often as required. The dog becomes distressed.

Our advice is simple: before you take on any puppy or adult dog, research the breed traits thoroughly.

Can you honestly provide the right kind of home for the puppy or dog you have seen advertised?

If the answer is no, choose a breed that genuinely suits you. Otherwise you risk failing as an owner, a devastated family and a dog left with possible behavioural problems and the trauma of being rehomed.

It is about matching the right breed to the right home. Not just any dog will do — they are not all the same simply because you treat them well.